Thursday, January 20, 2011

Yes, I'm THAT girl.

The other day I was browsing Yahoo's Shine articles out of boredom and I came across a fellow bloggers article. Granted she is a little more professional than me but then again she also works for Cosmopolitan magazine so that's pretty awesome.
Today's blog is going to be my version of her article.

In my life I have only been in two serious relationships and they only managed to make it about 10-11 months and the next girls that they dated after being with me they have lasted longer than said guy and I did. But it's always the same situation just different details, so here goes a lovely walk down memory lane, also names have been changed.

First there was Adam in my junior year of high school he was not only my first kiss he was also my first actual boyfriend and we had a lot of fun together while we were together. He and made it almost 11 months so yes he holds a special place in my heart but he has been with his new girlfriend for two years and he calls her "wifey" but as long as he's happy then I am happy for him and he and I are still friends which I am thankful for because if nothing more friends are always a great thing!

Then there was John who I met through a mutual friend of his brother's at the race track that I used to race at. I think that I was in love with him because from the beginning he was there for me through everything, from breaking my back to family issues. I learned a lot from that relationship too about myself and guys and the way they work. Roughly two years or so after he and I parted way I found out that he was engaged and getting married to the girl he met after he and I broke up. I haven't talked to him since the day he told me the news but I'm still happy for him and his new wife and I wish them the best.

Which leads me to believe that there is either something wrong me that makes it so that I can't make it past 11 months with a guy or I'm just not long lasting relationship material. I'm the female version of Good Luck Chuck and I don't even have to do the dirty with them. What the hell is wrong with me??

So the search for lasting happiness continues.

1 comment:

  1. There is nothing wring with you!!! Not every guy is going to fit perfectly...but there will be one (or more) that does, whether he's Mr Right or just Mr Right-Now. He'll come along!


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