It seems that a so-called friend of mine, who shall remain nameless, even though I've written about this certain individual before, and with high praise I might add, has deleted me from Facebook.
Yes, it's Facebook and I have a ton of other friend's that are perfect for the replacement of this former friend, but I have an issue with people sometimes. I always want answers as to why they've done what they've done, not just to me, but to others as well and for this person in particular I am chomping at the bit for even a slice of communication. But it seems that my college experience may be "changing me" and their Bible thumping bigot of a fiance does not entirely embrace the world and all of it's glorious changes that are happening every day. As I see it that's their problem, I'll be the one that's educated and I'll be a half of a power couple making bank (hopefully) and they'll be busy popping out babies left and right like it's going out of style.
I'm sorry but this unfortunate loss of an already lost friend is not really helping my stress levels, it's almost 4 a.m. and I have a class at 9 in the morning tomorrow and I'm blogging about spilled milk essentially. It's the week before Spring fucking Break, why can't I just have a little bit of solitude? Just a dash, a pinch if you will. So in an effort to cool my own jets about this abrupt departure I've taken to posting a poll of sorts on my Facebook wall asking my friend's who is getting educated, who has been educated, and who has a job in a field they enjoy that getting a degree helped them to get. To prove to myself and They Who Shall Not Be Named that in the end things will probably be better for me.
Tonight, I hate Facebook a little bit more.
Tomorrow is another day, just gotta breathe through today I guess.
I've said my peace.
Dude that sucks, but I wouldn't give it a second thought. People grow up and change and if they can't embrace the new awesome you- then they aren't worth it. I don't believe in staying friends with people who can't be friends with me because I have different opinions. Different opinions are what makes the world go around.
ReplyDeleteYeah, the way that I'm starting to see it is that they did me a favor.
ReplyDeleteFacebook leads to so much drama. I've honestly considered deleting my profile a dozen times over the course of the last few months. It's funny how it can be so insulting for someone to delete you. Even if they consider you a friend in real life (or don't), the fact that they took time to go through their friends list and forcibly remove you shows some negative feelings. In my opinion? If this is how they are going to act, maybe you really don't need their influence in your life. As you said, you'll be in a power couple and they'll pop out babies. I like to think that karma always comes full-circle in the end.
ReplyDeleteHope you've been well,
~Shane
Yeah, I'm not one for drama, plus her friendship with me has been a roller coaster for a while now so I'm not too worried about it anymore.
DeleteI have been well besides this and minor school stresses, thank you Shane.